Monday, July 21, 2008

PREDILECTION

One Word


TAEMIN!


Budak cute yang ku kenali malam tadi.
(Well, not in person of course)

Dan yang paling tak sangka sekali, budak tu itu baru berumur 16 tahun!

He’s so talented, cute and loveable….

I fell head over heels for him…

Mau pengsan kalau jumpa face-to face!

Tak pun menjerit-jerit macam kena histeria.




Eh! Wait seminit!


Apa dia?

16?

Isn’t he’s too young for your liking?

Eh?

Iya tak iya jugak ek?

Eh?

Aku ada masalah ke?

Sebab suka kat budak yang lagi muda dari aku.

Which bring me to the matter of age difference in a relationship.

I’ve always tak kisah if I my partner is actually younger than me.
Cinta tak kenal usia.
But, most women are skeptical about dating or marrying a person younger than them.
Men who are younger than you are tend to be less mature than you are. That’s what they think. Which is true….sometime.


Berusia tak semestinya matang.
Muda tak semestinya tak matang.

For me, if he knows how to treat me well, understand me, and most important of all, know how to make the right decision, then I don’t mind the age gap at all!

A friend once asked me.

“Serius kau tak kisah?”

“ Tak. Janji dia lagi matured dari akulah.”

“ Eii…lelaki selagi tak umur 30 takdanya yang matang!”

“Ada!.Aku pernah jumpa. Dia dah kahwin dah pun. Masa dia kahwin tu umur dia baru 22. Wife dia masa tu umur 24.”

Dia, terdiam.

Ha, baru tau!

5 orang kawan aku lahir dari emak yang lagi tua dari ayahnya. Dan kesemua adik-beradiknya berjaya ke menara gading. Bak kata ayah aku.

“Anak Che Din tu semua pandai-pandai. Semua masuk u.”

Terbukti, wanita boleh bersuamikan lelaki yang lebih muda dari mereka. Malah, institusi keluarga yang dibina ternyata berjaya dan efektif.

Jadi, lepas ni jangan salahkan aku kalau tiba-tiba saham Adik-Adik tu bertambah tinggi dari biasa….

Friday, July 18, 2008

Spread The Love Y'all!

onje?












Spread The Love Y'all!
















*damn Nescafe!

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Tumpang Gembiraa...

I called one of my closest friends just now.
Just to say hello.
I haven’t seen her for quite some time now.
Kinda missed her.

Borak punya borak dia tiba-tiba sebut tentang satu perkara…
Yang aku tak sangka gila…
I was…..astonished!









“I’m getting married…” she said.

A moment of silence.




“I’m sorry, what?

“Aku tengah prepare nak kahwin ni..” she said again.

“What? Betul ke? Dengan siapa? Bila?”


She than explained and story everything about what happening to her life right now.
Turn out it was kinda arranged marriage. But she is totally fine with it. Dia cakap inilah jodoh.



Wow! (masih lagi terkejut)



After sometime I asked her back..

“Kau sukalah kat dia?”

“Suka!. Dia sangat matang dan berkarisma.Masa fisrt time jumpa dia aku rasa macam kitaorang dah kenal lama…”


Borak-borak, cerita-cerita lagi pasal dia...


“So this is it? You are sure that he’s the one? That he’s your soul mate?”


Tanpa sebarang rasa ragu-ragu dia jawab..

“Ha’ah. I’m sure.”

Wow!




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Wow





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I mean….wow!






I still can’t believe it!








I know she deserves it.
She had been through all kind of pain and suffering.
Her father passed away on the year of her SPM exam.
Her younger brother died of a road accident.
She had lost her older brother on the hectic time of Thesis.
Her older sister moved away from home never to have any connection with her and her whole family because her family thinks she married the wrong man.
And having the hardest thing to do is when she has to let go of her dream of becoming a lecturer because she had to come home and take care of her sick mother.


Mulianya hati kau.
Semulia nama kau.
Suci, Sacred.
That’s what you are.


Bijak tindakan kau meninggalkan impianmu menjadi seorang Pensyarah. (or so-called)
Sebab aku tahu kau susah nak survive kat situ.
Kat tempat kita belajar dulu.
Dengan ‘politik jabatan’ yang macam haram tu.
Kau dan aku sama-sama tak punya kipas atau air-cond untuk mengipas Orang Atasan di jabatan kita itu.
Biarlah Dia-Itu terjun dengan labu-labunya…



Trust me my dear,
You made the right choice leaving The Department.
Otherwise you wouldn’t meet you Mr. Future Husband kan?
I’m so happy for you dear.
I really do.

Friday, July 11, 2008

A Friend In Need Is A Friend Indeed...

People said good times should be shared…
I say …true…

But what about sad, unhappy times?
Would you stick around your friends if they got problems?
Would you be the shoulder to cry on?















I would…
And I did…














But looking back when I was in the Alma meter, I would consider myself as not having many close friend that I can turn to if I got problems. Should that be a problem? Entahla…

I guess it’s me that not very comfortable sharing my problem with my friends…
It’s not them….they did offer to help…ye ke?…

I think there’s only one person that I never could lie to her. She will knew everytime if I got problems or not… I consider her as my best friend…I didn’t know if she ever felt the way I do.... Thanks Bumblebee… you know who you are…

Bumblebee was my roommate back in matric. Actually she lives next to my room when I was in my first year in matric. We choose to be roommate when we were in second year. I was known to her and all her roommates as ‘budak tak mau senyum’…well my facial expression does look garang sometimes…(ok all the time…that’s what people said la..for me its my natural look..heh)…

Jadi, pada suatu hari yang cerah, aku yang dalam perjalanan nak pergi tandas terserempaklah dengan si Bumblebee ni… agaknya moodku baik hari itu, jadi aku pun senyumlah kat minah Bumblebee ni.
Rupa-rupanya sampai jer kat dalam bilik si Bumblebee ni cerita kat satu bilik…

“weh korang tau tak..tadi budak sebelah tu senyum kat aku ..”
“ye ke? Serius? Mood dia baiklah tu..”

So, since that very day, aku pun berkawan baik dengan seluruh roommate Bumblebee itu…
Sampailah sekarang...




So people, smile a lot..
A smile can brighten up your day…


Senyum seindah suria
Yang membawa cahaya
Senyumlah dari hati
Duniamu berseri

Senyum umpama titian
Dalam kehidupan
Kau tersenyum ku tersenyum
Kemesraan menguntum…

Senyum seindah suria
Yang membawa cahya
Senyumlah dari hati
Duniamu berseri

Senyum umpama titian
Dalam kehidupan
Kau tersenyum ku tersenyum
Kemesraan menguntum

Senyum... kepada semua
Senyumanmu amatlah berharga
Senyum... membahagiakan
Dengan senyuman terjalinlah
Ikatan...